Sometimes the writing life throws punches.
I’m not even talking about the 1100-plus rejections that I’ve received. For me it’s the smaller disappointments. The lack of control I feel when I’m at the mercy of a publisher. I want my stories out there, so I can’t push as hard as I might want on certain issues. It’s the hope I felt for a manuscript when the publisher let me know who she found for the illustrator. The artist had such potential! Then the publisher said that after seeing the illustrations she realized this manuscript—my manuscript—wasn’t right for her. Ouch!
Or the times I’ve heard, “Yes, we are still interested.” Years later, I still haven’t heard from them. Of course, I moved on. But still.
So for this post, I’m gathering inspiration for the #kidlit community of writers and illustrators to carry on, to help motivate each other to work hard and to stay focused on the prize – touching children’s lives.
It is the quote below that started me thinking about this post and moves me to continue persevering despite the rejection and despite the waiting that comes with the making of books. I found it on the blog of literary agent, John M. Cusick, with Folio Jr.
“… in my experience, the relationship between talent and success is slim. It’s the hard-workers, the grinders, the folks who write a lot, then listen and take criticism and grow, that make it.”
Hang in there, Creatives. I am grateful for this supportive community of writers and illustrators that shares honestly and supports each other with compassion. May we continue to be brave enough to share our art.
Please add any inspirational quotes, thoughts, or sayings in the comment section below to help keep us all going during this holiday season and beyond. And if you’d like a chance to win a copy of my newest book, BEFORE I SLEEP: I SAY THANK YOU,
I’m doing a giveaway as part of the amazing SCBWI’s new Book Launch Party program. You will be entered to win by commenting below and/or signing my Guest Book. (Click on the “enter my contest” button for details.)
Don’t forget to leave your e-mail address so you can be contacted. Contest ends January 31st 2016. Three winners will be selected: One for best inspiration left in the comment section below, and two randomly chosen from the SCBWI book launch Guest Book. Thank you Pauline Books and Media for generously donating the giveaway copies.
Yes, sometimes the writing life throws punches, but other times it embraces you with hope and wonder if you hang in there. I just found out, before this post went live, that Nynke Mare Talsma, will be the illustrator for my picture book, Ya Know What? with Clavis Books. The Dutch version will be in their fall 2016 catalog. the English version will be out in a later catalog. I have waited many months for this news. I remind myself over and over again that in the book business, I must trust in the process.
Happy creating! Happy holidays! Wishing you a healthy, happy, and successful 2016!


Thank you for being so honest, Carol. I think my number of rejections is probably near yours. But it is very heartening to see your successes. That’s what keeps us going.
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Keep at it and don’t forget to work at your craft. You’ll get there!
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Terrific post. Thanks!. Here is a quote that keeps me going: “What separates the talented individual from the successful one is a lot of hard work.” ~ Stephen King ~
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Thanks for sharing that one, Rosi. I found Stephen King’s ON WRITING book very inspirational.
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Encouraging post, thank you for sharing.
Recently, I’ve adopted the quote ‘No means Next Opportunity’. Don’t fall into despair, keep on moving forward and one day it’s your turn.
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Love that! Sounds like my new mantra, ‘No means Next Opportunity’.
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Wonderful post! Thank you for the SPOT ON quotes!
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Carol, you acknowledge the reality, and you still cheer us on! You’ve helped me to hang in there. Thanks so much for years of inspiration, support, and motivation–and hopefully many more years of it to come!
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I’m always grateful for your support and knowledge and fabulous writing skills, Marianne. Thank you!
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Congratulations on “Ya Know What?” Carol! Thank for collecting such uplifting quotes for us to ponder as well.
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Thanks for dropping by Writers’ Rumpus often and taking the time to comment. It is always appreciated, Cathy!
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Thank you Carol for the great article. Lovely gems in there I will think about today as I write. Congratulations on your exciting next steps for your book “Ya Know What?
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Cathy, thanks so much for your kind words! I love this part of the book process…the seeing of how an illustrator’s vision changes the pictures that were in my head.
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Love the quotes you included, Carol. And congratulations on your books! Years ago, I took an adult education course in writing. My teacher said something that I often remind myself when I’m down: “Keep working. Keep trying. You’ll do fine.” (And I have!) Because a writer works alone, an online community of writers is so important.
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Thanks, Amy. I will keep in mind what you’re teacher said. I definitely plan to keep working! And thanks for the support.
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Great post, Carol!
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Hey Miss Carol. I hear you loud and clear. Sometimes the writing business can be discouraging, but one of the best parts is meeting fellow authors like yourself at book fairs (Central MA) :0) My quote is this, “No isn’t a bad word. It simply means I have yet to ask the right person!” Hang in there my friend and keep doing what you love.
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Discouraging, yes. But luckily, there always seems to be a light at the end of the tunnel. Just knowing it’s coming, helps. Hope to see you at another writing event, soon. Your bread was SO delicious! Thanks for sharing.
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